bath safety

Regardless of your age, you’ve probably experienced changes to your level of ability at some point. Maybe you’ve broken bones and been temporarily in a cast. Perhaps after a lot of driving, you’ve had back pain so bad you couldn’t move.

The point, here, is that all of us have been in situations where the regular tasks we take for granted become more difficult or dangerous. In these situations, having grab bars for extra support could be the difference between staying safe and suffering a fall. 

They’re not talked about enough, but falls are a huge problem that affects everyone.

According to a 2014 study by the CDC, falls are the leading cause of fatal and nonfatal injuries among adults aged 65 and older. Approximately one-third of seniors have a fall each year, but less than half tell their doctor. Worse, a person’s risk of falling doubles if they’ve fallen once before.

If you’re under 65, you might not think you need to worry about falls, but their impacts are far-reaching. 

Falls place a tremendous financial burden on the medical system. In the US in 2015, the total medical costs for falls were over $50 billion. These statistics are just the tip of the iceberg when it comes to falls, and they don’t account for the long-term impact family members endure when their loved ones fall. 

The worst part is that falls are very preventable, but because of stigma and shame, people are reluctant to accept safety solutions like grab bars.

The stigma around grab bars:

          Before we go any further, let’s think about some safety solutions that are widely accepted. We use seatbelts when driving, handrails on stairs, and helmets when cycling—so why is it so hard for us to accept grab bars in wet, slippery bathrooms?

In reality, the stigma around grab bars is just part of the stigma around aging and disability. Engineer and occupational therapist Rebecca Langbein sums this up in a fall 2020 interview:

“There’s no denying we live in an ageist world. We’re taught from the time we’re really little, “enjoy life when you’re young; everything gets worse when you get older!”

Even though aging and the changes that it brings are pretty much universal, they are seen in a negative light, so anything that draws attention to them (like grab bars) might be difficult to accept.

Traditional grab bars (and a lot of other safety products) also have a reputation for looking very clinical. In addition to feeling ashamed about your age or level of ability, you probably don’t want products in your home that make it look like a hospital.

Beyond the stigma around aging, disability, and grab bars—people tend to feel embarrassed about asking for help or support in general. In western culture, self-sufficiency is seen as one of the highest virtues. As a result, asking for help is seen as a weakness.

This belief in fierce independence can be toxic in a lot of ways, but in the context of grab bars, it’s just ironic. 

If we all felt less shame about aging, disability, and safety, maybe we’d see grab bars and safety products become standard fixtures everywhere. Maybe it wouldn’t be so scary to ask for the support we need. As a result, maybe we’d all be able to stay independent and self-sufficient for longer. 

 How do grab bars help prevent falls?

  There are 3 main ways grab bars help prevent falls:

• Providing support for balance: If you have trouble balancing, holding onto a grab bar can help you maintain your balance and reduce fatigue while standing.
• Providing support during transfers: A transfer is any change of position. Some common examples include getting on or off the toilet, or in and out of the bath. As people age, it’s normal for these types of transfers to become more difficult. A well-placed grab bar can make transfers easier and safer.
• Providing a fail-safe: As a last resort, a grab bar can prevent a fall in progress by giving you something to grab onto before you hit the floor.

Proactively installing grab bars (and overcoming the stigma):

          It’s natural that you might feel ashamed about your changing needs, but you shouldn’t have to. If we’re lucky enough to live to old age, all of us will deal with varying needs—and that’s okay!

What’s important is that whatever your needs (or the needs of your loved ones), you’re able to live with comfort and dignity without worrying about your safety. Even if you feel like it’s too soon to install grab bars, taking a proactive approach has several benefits.

First, your home will be safer for everyone. If you have older friends and family who visit you or share your space, having grab bars will ensure their comfort and safety in your home.

Another benefit to installing grab bars before you need them is that you won’t ever be in a rush to install them in reaction to a fall or injury.   

Finally, you (and your loved ones) won’t have to worry about your safety long-term. You can have peace of mind that your space will work for you as you age, and you’ll probably be able to avoid some difficult conversations about safety. If you feel embarrassed talking about this, installing safety products means you won’t have to. 

Even if you don’t choose to install grab bars in your home right now, you should understand why it’s an important step. We hope that once you feel ready, that understanding makes your decision easier.